Holidays aren’t festive for some

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Holidays aren’t festive for some

Dear Heloise: Each holiday season, there are more LONELY PEOPLE. For them, Thanksgiving and Christmas are just regular days, but even lonelier. It’s awful.

This could be your neighbor.

Some of us dread holidays because we have no family, and friends are with their relatives.

We usually eat a TV dinner by ourselves.

Solution: We would be ecstatic to go out for breakfast or lunch. Then you can join your family for dinner.

Please print and help us enjoy the holidays.

— Lonely and Alone in Placentia, Calif.

Dear Lonely: Your handwritten note to me really pulled at my heart. You did not sign it, so I had to guess

Hints from Heloise

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where you live by your return address. Readers, it appears it’s a retirement community. I could not find an apartment, room

number or other information.

So, I’m writing to “Lonely and Alone” here, as well as to others who may feel the same. It can be depressing to be lonely during Thanksgiving, Christmas, Kwanzaa, Hanukkah and other holidays.

If you feel like this, reach out! There are others like you, and they welcome company, too. Readers, offer to help others where you live, or volunteer at an animal or other shelter. Check on neighbors, co-workers or friends who may be alone. Invite them over for coffee and cookies, or take them to breakfast or lunch.

It won’t take much time or money.

Offer a small holiday plant or baked goods (or store-bought) — ask what they might like.

Just make contact! Even if they decline, they’ll know someone cares.

— Hugs, Heloise

P.S.: To my reader, Lonely and Alone, please write again, and include your name or an apartment or room number so I can send you something.

I’m going to ask the staff at your community if they can post this somewhere, and hope you see it in case it does not get printed in your paper.